Understanding the "Gold-Digger" COMPLEX

BEFORE YOU CAN APPLY THE TIPS AND ADVICE, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND...

*It's no secret.*
Usually, anyone labeled as a Gold-Digger isn't called that on 'positive' terms.
And why is that?!? Because the term Gold-Digger is usually thrown as an INSULT.

For example. If a regular girl from around the block happens to meet a millionaire and they end up MARRIED, her lifestyle will CHANGE drastically. Beautiful love story right? Right. But I can assure you that she didn't meet this guy sitting in front of the television, laying in bed, walking to the bus stop, or any of that NONSENSE. Being a Gold-Digger is WORK, it is a JOB, A CAREER for many and to get that millionaire she may have:

• Targeted the millionaire
• placed herself in situations around the millionaire
• Dressed provocatively for the attention of the millionaire
  
• Played her part(whichever part that may be)
• Made the millionaire happy
• Jumped at the millionaire's "Beck and Call"
• Satisfied the millionaire in every way that she felt possible
• Any and everything to show her appreciation and attention
  

Think about that for a second.
Do these actions make her a Gold-Digger? The simple answer is yes! But it gets more complicated than that. You see, all of these actions make her a GOOD WOMAN AS WELL. The only thing that makes her a Gold-Digger is her motivation.

$The cash$

AND THAT IS WHY GOLD-DIGGING IS CONSIDERED SOMEWHAT NEGATIVE

If you were to replace "the millionaire" with "the average Joe", or "the teacher" in the above bullets, then she would sound like a WONDERFUL, THOUGHTFUL, CARING woman! One that surely any man should want!

But this can also be contested. You see, from the beginning of time, the male has always been the provider, and the female has been the rock. It's only natural for a woman to YEARN to be taken care of. Its only natural for men to YEARN for affection and love. So, its ALMOST a fair exchange.... the only flaw from a relationship like this is that the Gold-Digger is WORKING SO HARD FOR MONETARY BENEFIT ONLY, her priorities are usually NOT love. But to some men...who cares what the goal is as long as she makes him happy as he wants to be. So in a sense, it is a false relationship, that may or may not last.

SO.., ITS NOT THAT EASY TO CATEGORIZE OR JUDGE THE WORD "Gold-Digger".

WHETHER YOU USE ONE TIP OR ALL OF TIPS FROM THIS BLOG, APPLY IT TO YOUR LIFE!

BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE GOLD-DIGGING TENDENCIES...WE JUST DECIDE TO USE THEM IN DIFFERENT WAYS!
sooooooo are y'all ready for your "lessons"?!?!

(NOW...LET'S GET TO THE GOOD STUFF.....)
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